My dog, Rio

My dog, Rio

Friday, 9 October 2015

Should Teenagers date?

Ah teens, enjoying life of an adult where they don't know the responsibilities of being one. Welcome everybody! I am here to give you guys a question people always want to know and ask. Should high school students date?
Is the try really worth it???
Disclaimer: This is my own opinion. You are free to have your own decisions but you can obviously follow mine as well. This could be an opinion from an asian perspective as well so do not take this as a must to follow.

I know it is all fine and dandy to date. Isn't it? Yet I am not sure if I should take the path to LOVE AND HAVING FUN. It was since primary 6 that I said to myself: "When I am in high school, I must get a girlfriend". Well I've been in high school for 2 years now and.....here I am! Never dated a single time  ( Lonely crying in the corner ).

It is no doubt, dating is a great and fun experience well until the end that is. Mostly it leads to depression, sadness, confusion and so many negative experiences that I couldn't even describe. Other than that, break ups may lead to end of friendships if they can't really accept the end. Even worse, nothing is going to lead to anything fruitful as we are going to higher education in the near future. I mean, you don't really want to try long distance relationships.Do you? Ugh I can imagine the horror. Plus, any relationship can make our school results plummet. More scolding from parents, great.

High school is the place where we start to build the foundation for our life in the future. You do not want to be left out in the rat race right? Now rather than chasing after hot girls who might change the path of your life to the worse, why not change to the better by going after your dreams and ambitions? I mean, you could do much more productive activities than going out with your girlfriend and as I said earlier, it is not going to last anyway.

If you do support with me, great. If you don't, well I can relate. I do think that relationships can come true in high school but after 2 years I knew it isn't going anywhere. I searched for stories of people who took the wrong path and I saw people who turned over a new leaf. It is basically up to you to make up your own story. I have chosen mine. Have you?

Russell out.

I decided to post one video from domics ( that guy again ). This is the story about relationships. There are many more and this is only one of them but it is really touching. Hope you guys like it.
I want to thank the girl who helped me in crossing over to a brand new chapter of my life. You know who you are.

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